Why

You are at a breaking point. You may not want to change, but do you want a different outcome? Life is confusing, heartbreaking and filled with hurt. If you're not getting the outcome you're wanting out of life, its probably because you're stuck. If you take the time to re-think what is happening, you are capable of tracing that cycle of your choices, other's decisions and then an outcome, to an endless spinning cycle. Cycles that are left unchecked, are useless at best and utterly damaging at worst. 

If you want to get out of your cycle spinning to nowhere and get unstuck - you can. 

If you will take the time to Re-Think what you want, re-phrase your wording, which changes your mindset it will take your to a place where you will have a Re-Defined life.

You can Re-Define a better life for yourself. 

Better based on what? Better based on what you believe is different outcome, in a positive direction.  "Better" is not and cannot be based on someone else's perspective of what your life, path or journey should look like - only YOU can Re-define Better for yourself. Your eyes can be opened to the possibility of somethings different, and solely based on YOUR better. 

Its a choice - and its up to you.